Durham District School Board (DDSB) has worked closely with Dr. Stuart Shanker to support our students through Self-Regulation. Self-Regulation includes an awareness of what stresses us, how it impacts us and our ability to develop ways to manage it.
Dr. Shanker states that behaviour can be viewed as a reaction to stressors which occur in 5 domains:
- Biological
- Emotional
- Cognitive
- Social
- Pro-Social
Regulating the 5 domains
Biological domain |
The biological domain includes overall physical health and energy levels. Some stressors that can impact the biological domain, include: - Illness
- Lack of sleep
- Diet and water
- Environmental stressors such as light, temperature and noise levels
School supportsIn order to help students regulate the biological domain, schools and teachers can: - Make adjustments to the environment (lighting, sound, seating)
- Provide movement breaks
- Accommodate flexible nutrition breaks
Parent supportsTo help your child self-regulate the biological domain at home, you can: - Ensure they get enough sleep
- Limit screen time before bed
- Encourage physical activity
- Support healthy eating habits
- Make sure your home contains both calm and stimulating spaces
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Emotional domain |
The emotional domain includes the ability to experience and understand emotions, both positive and negative. Some stressors that can impact the emotional domain, include: - Change in routine
- Change in the family structure (death, divorce, birth of a sibling)
- Conflict between friends
- Grades
- Overscheduling
- Perceptions associated with body image
School supportsIn order to help students regulate the emotional domain, schools and teachers can: Parent supportsTo help your child self-regulate the emotional domain at home, you can: - Create predictable routines
- Let your child take responsibility for tasks
- Establish consistent and appropriate boundaries
- Support your child in monitoring task completion
- Prepare your child for changes in routine
- Model self-regulation in your own behaviour
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Cognitive domain |
The cognitive domain includes the ability to think through and learn new things. Some stressors that can impact the cognitive domain, include: - Work that is too hard or too easy
- Perfectionism
- Emotional stresses
- A diagnosed or identified learning challenge (Learning disability, ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Depression, Anxiety Disorder)
School supportsTo help students self-regulate the cognitive domain, schools and teachers can: - Provide learning tasks that are relevant and of interest to students
- Offer a variety of learning environments
- Deliver positive feedback and reinforcement
- Create an environment that supports learning and work completion
- Offer clear structure and rules
Parent supportsTo help your child self-regulate the cognitive domain at home, you can: - Encourage fun and interactive activities
- Find practical uses for information learned at school
- Visit the library, parks, exhibits, museums and community events related to what is taught in school
- Reward effort rather than outcome
- Recognize and reinforce your child's individual strengths rather than compare them to others
- Talk about the steps before starting a task
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Social domain |
The social domain involves understanding social situations and interacting appropriately with others. Some stressors that can impact the social domain, include: - Working with others
- Unfamiliar social interactions
- Inadequate sleep, exercise and nutrition
- Difficulty regulating in other domains
- A diagnosed or recognized learning challenge (Learning disability, ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Depression, Anxiety Disorder)
School supportsIn order to help students self-regulate the social domain, schools and teachers can: - Embed social and emotional learning into the curriculum and daily routines
- Provide collaborative learning experiences
- Foster healthy and meaningful relationships, as well as community building
- Use Restorative Practice and Progressive Discipline
- Use differential instruction (offer choice in learning tasks)
- Offer activities that promote teamwork and cooperation (choirs, sporting teams, clubs)
Parent supportsTo help your child self-regulate the social domain at home, you can: - Discuss feelings and possible reasons for those feelings
- Role play challenging social situations
- Encourage social interactions with others, including cooperative play
- Encourage a healthy diet, adequate sleep and exercise
- Model healthy relationships
- Celebrate strengths
- Spend time interacting together
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Pro-social domain |
The pro-social domain includes understanding how to get along with others, empathy and honesty. Some stressors that can impact the pro-social domain, include: - Over-reliance on punitive discipline
- Actions that promote immediate gratification and limited responsibility
- Over-exposure to media which focuses on individual needs and self-centeredness
- Environments that values individual achievement at the expense of others
- Cultures that condone or ignore bullying behaviours
School supportsIn order to help students self-regulate the pro-social domain, schools and teachers can: - Use Progressive Discipline and Restorative Practice
- Encourage students to join or participate in clubs or teams which develop empathy (social justice groups, bullying prevention activities)
- Support student participation in community-based activities (food drives, Senior Citizen Centre visits)
- Encourage empathy, active listening, leadership and the importance of helping others
Parent supportsTo help your child self-regulate the pro-social domain at home, you can: - Help your child consider the interests, feelings and needs of others
- Promote cooperation in a variety of activities
- Encourage your child to use personal strengths to help others
- Praise your child for empathetic behaviours and recognize these actions in yourself and others
- Encourage and support community involvement
- Monitor and discuss the impact of social media
- Watch movies, sporting events, television shows and read with your child and discuss how the actions impact others
- Model kindness and empathetic behaviour towards others at home and in the community
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Help your child self-regulate
You can teach your child to self-regulate by helping your child:
- Understand what calm and alert looks and feels like
- Recognize when they are stressed
- Identify what is causing stress
- Decide to take action
- Figure out which strategy will help
- Return to a calm and alert state